For a woman who is a wife, reach heaven is an easy thing. Just as easy with plunges her into hell. Heaven will be easy to come by if he follows what is commanded by God and his apostle.
Almighty God said: the woman (wife) shalihah is the abiding again kept away when her husband isn't there because God has kept them. (Al-Nisa ': 34) In this verse God gathers some of the properties that are required on a woman shalihah, which was obedient to God and to her husband in regard to things (good stuff) again kept him when her husband was not on his side.
Al-Sheikh Abdul Rahman bin Nasir As-Sa'di r. h. said: "the task of a wife is fulfilling our obedience to God and obedient to her husband, because that's what God said: shalihah is the obedient Women, the obedient to Allah SWT, again kept away when her husband wasn't home or next to it". I.e. obey their husbands even when her husband is not there, he watches her husband with keeping her and her husband's possessions. (Taisir, p. 177)
When the Prophet faced problems with his wives until he vowed will not interfere with them for a month, Allah revealed to him with the word that means: If the Prophet until divorcing you, hopefully God will give him the dressing with wives who are better than you guys, Moslem, mukminat, qanitat (disobedient to Allah), taibat (always repent), ' abidat (often worship), saihat (often fast) from among the widow or the girl. (At-Tahrim: 5) [Al-Jami ' li Ahkamil Quran, 18/126-127, Tafseer Ibn Katheer, 8/132]
The Prophet is said, "When a woman is keeping the five daily prayers, the fasting month (Ramadhan), keeping his cock and obedient to her husband, then when in the afterlife was said to him: Go ye into the heaven from which door you like". (Narrated by Ahmad 1/191, Shahihul Jami ' no. 660, 661)
Based on these propositions, can we conclude that the nature of the wife's shalihah is as follows:
1. Willed with devoted just to him without his associate with something else.
2. Subject to the command of God, continued in obedience to him by doing a lot of worship like prayer, fasting, giving charity and others.
3. Stay away from all the things forbidden and away from traits that low can erode the noble properties
4. Always repent to God until lisannya are always filled with istighfar and Dhikr to him. Instead he said that far from useless, not useful and bring Sin like lying and others.
5. Obey the husband in terms of goodness is not in bermaksiat to God and implementing the rights of the husband should be.
6. Keep herself when her husband was not on his side. His Holiness from the hands to touch, from the eye to see, or from the ears want to hear.
Likewise, keep the kids, home, and property of her husband.
Other shalihah wife natures could consider the following:
1. Loving sweetheart, always return to her husband and look for maafnya. The Prophet Muhammad said: "will I tell you, ye wives who becomes the host was a loving wife, many children, always go back to her husband. Where if her husband upset, he came up to her and put his hand on her husband's hand and said: "I could not sleep before you take off." (Narrated by al-Nasaa'i dalamIsyratun Nisa No. 257.)
2. Serve her husband (serving husband) such as preparing a meal trough, bedding, clothing and the like.
3. Keep Secrets more, more-husband who deals with the intimate relationship between him and her husband.
Asma ' bint Yazid r. ha tells him ever being on the side of the Messenger. When men and women were sitting. He asked: "Perhaps there is among you a husband who told her what he did with his wife (husband and wife relationships), and perhaps there's a wife who tells what he did with her husband?" Then they were all silent no one answered. I (Asthma) was answered: "for the sake of God! O Messenger of Allah, verily, they (the wives) actually do it, so they (the husband) ".
He said, "never again you guys are doing, because that is like the devil the devil met with females on the road, then a temporary digaulinya mankind watched it". (Narrated by Ahmad, 6/456)
4. Always look nice and interesting in the presence of her husband so that when her husband gazing will please him.
5. When her husband was at home, he kept himself busy with do not worship the sunnah which can impede her husband untukistimta ' (bernikmat-nikmat) with him such as fasting, except when her husband allow.
6. Thanks to the gift of Clever and good husband, has not forgotten his kindness.
7. Hasten to fulfill his desire to meet the husband, the invitation did not reject it without a legitimate reason, and not away from the bed of her husband, because he knows and is afraid of the news Messenger of Allah to mean: for substances that my soul was in his hand, not a husband calls his wife to his bed and then the wife refuse her husband's (reluctant) but Allah's wrath against him until the husband to take off her. (Narrated by Muslim, no. 1436)
That's the nature of the teaser's wife promised Heaven by God. May we, all the wives could obtain this position and tomorrow go to heaven from the door anywhere we want. Amin
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